Monday, January 17, 2011

Does She Love Me? How to Know For Sure

Okay, so you have began hanging out with a girl. Possibly you and her have gotten intimate already. Possibly not. But there comes a time when you begin to consider "Does she love me?" In other words, is the girl beginning to consider a more committed relationship.

Allow me to talk about a couple of questions you may ask to discover how deep a woman's emotions for you could be.

First, does the woman talk about the future? When women talk about the longer term with each other, it means they see the other person in it. And if you love someone you would like them in your future. A good technique to determine if a girl is deeply in love with you is to observe if she talks about the longer term with you. Does she want to live in London with you? Does she mention buying a pug together with you and taking it for walks around the block each morning? "Does she love me?" Likelihood is she does.

Second, does the woman start to miss you any time you go a couple of days without talking to her? If a girl is deeply in love with you, she will want to talk to you a whole lot and spend time with you a whole lot. Basically, she will become hooked on you (for lack of a better phrase). Does she tell you just how she misses you when you do not speak for some days? Does she eagerly anticipate your response to texts and e-mails? If it gets to the stage where she's consistently trying to get a piece of your time or she'd like to have increasing amounts of time with you, then she probably does love you.

Thirdly, is she notably caring towards you? Most women usually are rather thoughtful and caring toward the guy they adore and want to go out of their way to do stuff for you. Does she congratulate you on your triumphs? Does she appear down when she learns about your failures? Does she go to your place and leave a personal gift at your front door when you are out at work to surprise you? If she seems to genuinely care for you a lot, then she most likely does love you.

Fourth, have you been introduced her family. To women, it is a extremely significant thing to introduce a man to their family. She is not going to want to look like a slut that hooks up with a lot of men, so if she puts in the time to introduce you to her family, then likelihood is very good she wants you around in the future. I mean, why would a woman have you meet her family if you were merely a fling? Most parents would not encourage that type of activity and only want their little princess to have sincere relationships that are going somewhere.

So, these 4 bits of advice should enable you to answer that question "does she love me?" It is really not a big deal to figure these things out. Just imagine yourself in her position and take into consideration what has to be going through her mind to encourage what she does.

Brian Broderick used to be a shy "nice guy" that was totally clueless with women. Now in a relationship with his perfect woman, he enjoys helping other men reach their dating goals.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Counting Your Blessings - Show Him You Love Him for Real

Does he see that you absolutely love him? Does he see that you care for him so much? Does he reciprocate by showing how much he loves you, too? Proof of your love for each other does not have to come from words. You can show it through little things here and there. Below is a list of things you can do to demonstrate your love for him as well as signs to see if he truly cares.


The Little Things Mean Big

Although it is always a wonderful birthday gift to receive a classy perfume or a stunning dress, such do not automatically mean your boyfriend adores you. What truly matters are the nice things you get when there is no occasion at all. Some nice wine for the both of you to enjoy, rather than cans of beer for him alone, spells romance. In the same way, bringing home a six-pack is a little way of showing that you care for your guy.

Money Cannot Buy Love

How high the figure on the price tag attached to a present does not necessarily relate to how much one loves another. Not everyone can buy pricey presents. Your guy will be grateful enough if you give him gifts that are well-thought of and reflect your love more than its dollar price. Everyone knows that a poor fellow who would buy a bouquet of roses for his girl than eat must really be in love.

Words and Actions Go Hand-in-Hand

The phrase "I love you" becomes so easy to say after some time. Does it really mean much? Back your words with a little bit of loving action, like whipping up his favorite pasta (or whatever dish he enjoys). When he is surprised by the act, give him a soft kiss and whisper, "I love you this much" in his ear.

A Plan When His Actions Do not Show His Love

It is really amazing to love and be loved. However, it has cannot be that amazing for you or the relationship if you are the only one loving. Your guy may, in fact, be taking all the benefits even after you give him more than your all. That said, his falling in love with you simply is not a given even if you go to great lengths to show him your affection. Most of the time, it is not. It may be time to stop giving if you just do not get anything back. He may end up realizing his mistakes or you could call it quits. Whatever may happen, it is definitely better than just giving all the time and receiving zero back.

There are many things you can do to show your love in place of just saying it. It is a different story however if you have no one to show your love to. How do you draw a man towards you and make him adore you? We can let you know, too.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Sweet Words Every Woman Would Love To Hear- Be Absolutely Sensational And Blow Her Over

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Nothing in this world can match the power of words. Words can make or destroy whatever bid thing you have. In relationships, words are the key weapons that work best for a man. You can play around with the feelings of a woman simply by using the most appropriate words. Words that build. Sweet words every woman would love to hear. Blow her mind by saying the right words at the right time. A woman is a tender and vulnerable being with a lot of self consciousness. Sometimes or actually many times she does not feel surefooted. She needs reassurances now and then. It makes her feel good by stroking her the right way with good words off course. You will make her feel absolutely sensational and ensure that she does not leave your fold.

You look youthful, gorgeous, vibrant and so full of energy, vigor and vitality. They are the echoes of Sweet words every woman would love to hear. Though this might not be her true picture considering the tell tale signs of aging, they will blow her over. No woman wants to be told that she has lost her radiance of youth. She does not want to be told that their is a streak of grey hair that is slowly colonizing her head. She has now lost that spring and sure footed ness of her younger days. But in every woman their is that young girl inside her that needs to be spoilt and played with. The girl is just crazy about attention and craves for it sometimes. Bring the young girl out of the woman and play with her. You will be amazed at how close she will be with you. You will have vanquished the last pockets of resistance in her heart if their existed any.

I can never get enough of you. Even after you have won the heart of a woman and she is now your partner, it is not the end of it all. The buck does not stop there. She needs to be reassured every time and all the time. Sweet words every woman would love to hear. She is your woman and she wants to know and feel that what attracted you to her has not fizzled out. She wants to be reassured that the fire is still burning in the relationship. She wants to know that the spark that made you fall madly in love is still there and has not died out. By sweetly telling her you can hardly get enough of her, it assures her that she is still attractive to you. It puts to rest her fears that your affection towards her might be fizzling out. She wants to know that she still holds the same position she held when you fell head over heels in love with her.

Sweet words work wonders with women. Sweet words every woman would love to hear. Tell her she is sexy, one of a kind. You will not realize how such words sound like good music to her ears. It improves her personality by boosting her confidence and self esteem. It puts so much pleasure in her heart to know that she has a sexual appeal that does not pass unnoticed. Tell her you adore her. It is so sensational you will always have her tucked under your arm.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

60 Words and Phrases that Make Men Fall Deeper in Love

The interesting thing about getting the love you deserve is that you have a great deal of influence in the kind of love you get. Most times, the love one gets is a function of the kind of love one gives. And when it comes to love, communication is the fuel that fans its flame. The words you choose can be the difference between a relationship where there is constant drama or one that is nurturing, blissful and romantic.

Now that you know that, let me share a little bit of the kinds of words that just simply turns men on and makes them want to love you even more.


1. Honey

2. Sweetheart

3. Sweetie

4. Baby

5. Darling

6. Sexy

7. Fine

8. Handsome

9. Stud muffin

10. Sugar

11. You just make me feel so good.

12. You are the best.

13. I can't get enough of you.

14. You drive me wild.

15. You know me inside and out.

16. I love you so much.

17. I love you with all my heart and soul.

18. You make me laugh.

19. You are so funny.

20. I love the way you love me.

21. I love the way you make me feel.

22. I never want you to stop loving me.

23. I don't know what I would do without you in my life.

24. You make me feel so special.

25. I need you in my life.

26. You just made my day.

27. I can't get enough of your hugs and kisses.

28. I apologize.

29. I promise to love you forever.

30. You are the one for me.

31. I don't need anyone else in my life.

32. You are more than enough for me.

33. Marry me and make me the happiest woman.

34. I have always loved you and will always love you.

35. I miss you so much.

36. I am so lonely without you.

37. My life is empty without you.

38. I can't wait to see you.

39. I want to be with you forever.

40. I love the way you hold me.

41. It kills me to know that you will be gone for a long time.

42. I feel like I am dreaming when I am with you.

43. I have never been loved like this before.

44. I'd love to wake up next to you forever.

45. It hurts me so much to see you this way.

46. If I can't be with you, then I don't want to be with anyone else.

47. I am not waiting for a knight in shining armor - mine has already arrived.

48. If your kisses were wishes I would make a 1000 wishes.

49. Life has never been better since you came into my life.

50. I can't believe we have been together for so long. I guess time flies when you are having fun.

51. I will go to the ends of the world for you.

52. Life without your love is a life I'd rather not live.

53. I love the way you look at me.

54. I trust you with all my heart.

55. Thank you for all you have done for me.

56. The words "I love you" are not enough to express how I feel about you.

57. I can't find the words to express how you make me feel.

58. You make me feel like I am the luckiest girl in the world.

59. Just being with you is enough for me to have a great time.

60. You don't have to say a word for me to feel your love.

Life without endearing words is like being in a garden without flowers. Endearing words create a feeling that transcends our reality and makes life worth living.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

How To Make Him Fall In Love With You Again - These Tips Never Fail To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

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When you think you have found the true love of your life, and then he tells you he needs some space, your life can fall apart fast. The rosy future you had envisioned with him disappears and you become an emotional mess. All you can think of is how to make him fall in love with you again. If you find yourself with this problem. These tips never fail to get your ex boyfriend back.

One of the biggest problems you will face is being afraid of losing him to someone else. That will make you want to stay close to him, so he will not forget you. How can he forget you when you have been such an important part of his life? He cannot forget you anymore than you can forget him. But you do have to make him miss you and staying in his face is not the way to do it.

You need to put as much distance between the two of you as possible. Any contact at this time will only result in more hard feelings and problems. You are too emotional and he is still angry. That combination does not make for pleasant conversation. There needs to be a cooling off period before any thought of getting your ex back can be successful. Every time you pressure him you make the time of getting him back a little longer.

In fact you should be giving him the impression that you are just fine with the breakup. Instead of trying to get him to talk to you, you should be ignoring him. This might sound strange, but to make him fall in love with you again, you have to make him think you do not want him anymore. That is why you cannot let him think you are trying to get him back.

When you do not try to get him back or stop trying to get him back, he will be confused. His ego has made him think he is the most important person in your life. Ignoring him and moving on will severely bruise his ego. Once he thinks you are slipping away from him, he will have to go into action to get you back. Men cannot stand to lose something they feel belongs to them and he still considers you his girlfriend.

When the breakup reaches this point, you are in control again, just as you were when you first met him. He had to come after you and convince you to be his girlfriend when he first met you. Now, you have him back in that same position. This situation is familiar to you, because you have been here before. You played a little hard to get and led him on a chase. To get your ex boyfriend back, just do the same thing and you will make him fall in love with you again.

Monday, September 13, 2010

I Love You - The Most Important Words

We all know how important the words "I Love You" are, but are they really the most important words in the world? In a world where hundreds of languages and endless billions of phrases have been spoken over our thousands of years of recorded history, could three short words like I Love You really exist as most important, consequential phrase ever spoken?

There's no doubt that for certain individuals throughout history, I Love You did not end up being the most important words they ever heard. But for our culture and society as a whole, and where all of history is concerned, it's arguable that I Love You (and all of its equivalents in other languages) are indeed the most important words in the world.

Love in its many different forms has undoubtedly been the driving force behind much of the world's progress, wars, and monumental developments. Whether it is love of country, love of self, or the desired love of another, the words "I Love You" have played a much larger role in the development of humanity than the history books suggest.

While there are specific recorded examples of romantic love changing the course of history (think of the face that "launched a thousand ships," for example), love almost certainly exists as the influence behind many other significant events in history. While mankind's need for power is often blamed for many wars and innovations, the need to defend something we love or earn the love of another is undoubtedly a strong influence in these events, as well.

Few words have the power and life-changing influence as I Love You, even for the vast majority of us who have no influence on the world stage, politics or international disputes. For the rich and famous as well as the average person, I Love You carries a huge weight both physically and psychologically. Everyone wants to be loved, regardless of whether they admit it or not, and hearing the words I Love You is a huge comfort to every person in the world.

So, are the words I Love You the most important words in the world? Ask yourself, is I Love You really the most important phrase in the world for you personally, as well? If they are, then you might be able to create the type of romantic relationship that goes down in history. If not, then you might not be ready yet; but that's not to say that you won't be someday in the future.

Above all else, romance is patient. Never rush into anything, and if it doesn't feel like the time to say those special three words, then love may just have to wait a while!

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Ways you can improve the health of your Love environment.

love relationships is not perfectJust as we pollute our planet’s environment, we also pollute our relationships through our behavior and the methods we use to get what we want.

No relationship is perfect. Every relationship needs maintenance, as well as a clean up from time to time, so that it can stay healthy and on the right track. Not only that, but a relationship also requires a couple to find new ways of cleaning it up- since a relationship changes and grows in time- with new experiences and issues.love Pollution

As much as we all want to keep our relationship happy at all times, it is just not a realistic desire. While you might have a lot in common with your partner, you two are still two individual human beings with your own personal goals, passions and desires that you wish to achieve in your lives. You and your partner may not always see eye to eye on everything and this causes conflicts. One or both of you may also get lazy in time, not investing as much effort as you used to when the relationship was young and fresh. Does this mean that your partner (or you) no longer cares? Probably not- but it does mean that you and your partner have settled in too deeply in the comfort zone of your relationship and need to get up and give your relationship a good work out, so that it can get back in shape.

The following are common ways we pollute our relationships with negativity, as well as suggestions on how you can cleans things up and improve your relationship’s health.

Polluter #1: Laziness

Laziness is never your friend. It holds you back and keeps you from accomplishing goals that will make you feel happy and fulfilled. Just as laziness hurts you in your academic and career field, it hurts you in your relationships as well. It is only natural that both you and your partner will become comfortable as your relationship matures. The more time you spend together, the less concerned you become with staying on your toes and impressing one another, because you trust that you both love each other. There is nothing wrong with being comfortable in a relationship. In fact, you should feel safe and comfortable with your partner. However, there is such thing as getting too comfortable in a relationship. If you hang out in the comfort zone most of the time, that means you are no longer trying to find ways to excite each other and bring new joys into the relationship. At one point, you two will drift apart and will become bored- leading one or both of you to perhaps look outside the relationship for excitement, and/or break up.

What you can do: If your relationship is already suffering from the pollution of laziness, then it is time for both you and your partner to get up and get active! Do things to let your partner know that you are still crazy about him/her, as well as let him/her know things you would like for them to do for you, or with you. Find new places to visit together, new hobbies to get active in- whatever you both feel you will enjoy in each other’s company. It does not have to be anything big or extravagant, as long as you both work together in keeping the relationship active.

Polluter #2: Arguments

It is not really the arguing that is the polluter here, but more the way you argue that is. Arguing is normal and is important, because it plays a big role in bringing you and your partner closer together. Arguing is reasoning people give one another when they are for or against something. Through arguing, you and your lover learn the differences that exist between you and can use this information to understand each other better and therefore respect each other more, as well as behave more considerately towards one another. Arguments can help a relationship become even stronger and healthier…when you do it in a positive manner. Unfortunately, we often handle arguments in a negative manner, because to most of us arguments equal negative and this point of view causes us to behave negatively in an argument. Before you know it, what is supposed to be a constructive and learning experience, ends up being a fight of him vs. her with the goal to win and be right, rather than working together in finding a compromise.

What you can do: First of all, it is important that you keep reminding yourself that arguments are not a bad thing. Keep reminding yourself this until you truly understand it, so that the next time you get involved in an argument with your partner, you will not have your defenses up ready to enter a fight. Instead enter an argument with an open mind and heart, ready to problem solve- rather than enter a fighting contest. Do not be afraid or shy to talk to your partner about arguing. Remember, open and honest communication is key and if you and your lover talk about this when you two are happy and not arguing, you will be able to set your goals about this open and clear mindedly. It is essential that you both remember that when arguments do come to surface, the point is to attack the problem and not the person. Getting angry and feeling hurt during arguments is okay, as long as you express your anger and hurt productively and not in a way to just hurt your part back. Polluter #3: Denial

Denial is a huge relationship polluter. Many of us want to desperately believe that everything is fine or will work itself out in our relationship, causing us to blind ourselves from many truths. Every relationship will have problems and obstacles that are both painful and anger inducing, so while you can denial problems all you want- you are actually only making things worse for your relationship. Ignoring problems does not make them go away, but in fact makes them grow and grow until your relationship is hanging by its last thread. There are times when two people will grow apart and break up because of that, but often times; a relationship does not have to fall apart due to problems. Most relationship troubles can be worked out, but that requires the acceptance of these troubles from both partners involved.

What you can do: Be realistic and accept the fact that you and your partner can love each others and have problems at the same time. Understanding that having conflicts between you and your partner does mean you do not love each other anymore will help you avoid entering the denial zone. When a problem comes along, talk to your partner about it and do not avoid conversation when your partner approaches you about something. Brushing issues off will actually tear you two apart, because issues cannot work themselves out. If you really want to be with your partner, then you need to be a team member in your relationship at all times- the good and the bad. If do not want to lose your relationship and you want to make it last, then do not pretend everything is perfect. Love your relationship unconditionally by accepting it’s imperfections and teaming up with your lover in making improvements where they are needed (whether it is in the communication, trust, passion or commitment department) so your relationship can strengthen from both it’s positive and negative sides, rather than weaken due to denial on your or your partner’s part.