Thursday, September 23, 2010

How To Make Him Fall In Love With You Again - These Tips Never Fail To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

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When you think you have found the true love of your life, and then he tells you he needs some space, your life can fall apart fast. The rosy future you had envisioned with him disappears and you become an emotional mess. All you can think of is how to make him fall in love with you again. If you find yourself with this problem. These tips never fail to get your ex boyfriend back.

One of the biggest problems you will face is being afraid of losing him to someone else. That will make you want to stay close to him, so he will not forget you. How can he forget you when you have been such an important part of his life? He cannot forget you anymore than you can forget him. But you do have to make him miss you and staying in his face is not the way to do it.

You need to put as much distance between the two of you as possible. Any contact at this time will only result in more hard feelings and problems. You are too emotional and he is still angry. That combination does not make for pleasant conversation. There needs to be a cooling off period before any thought of getting your ex back can be successful. Every time you pressure him you make the time of getting him back a little longer.

In fact you should be giving him the impression that you are just fine with the breakup. Instead of trying to get him to talk to you, you should be ignoring him. This might sound strange, but to make him fall in love with you again, you have to make him think you do not want him anymore. That is why you cannot let him think you are trying to get him back.

When you do not try to get him back or stop trying to get him back, he will be confused. His ego has made him think he is the most important person in your life. Ignoring him and moving on will severely bruise his ego. Once he thinks you are slipping away from him, he will have to go into action to get you back. Men cannot stand to lose something they feel belongs to them and he still considers you his girlfriend.

When the breakup reaches this point, you are in control again, just as you were when you first met him. He had to come after you and convince you to be his girlfriend when he first met you. Now, you have him back in that same position. This situation is familiar to you, because you have been here before. You played a little hard to get and led him on a chase. To get your ex boyfriend back, just do the same thing and you will make him fall in love with you again.

Monday, September 13, 2010

I Love You - The Most Important Words

We all know how important the words "I Love You" are, but are they really the most important words in the world? In a world where hundreds of languages and endless billions of phrases have been spoken over our thousands of years of recorded history, could three short words like I Love You really exist as most important, consequential phrase ever spoken?

There's no doubt that for certain individuals throughout history, I Love You did not end up being the most important words they ever heard. But for our culture and society as a whole, and where all of history is concerned, it's arguable that I Love You (and all of its equivalents in other languages) are indeed the most important words in the world.

Love in its many different forms has undoubtedly been the driving force behind much of the world's progress, wars, and monumental developments. Whether it is love of country, love of self, or the desired love of another, the words "I Love You" have played a much larger role in the development of humanity than the history books suggest.

While there are specific recorded examples of romantic love changing the course of history (think of the face that "launched a thousand ships," for example), love almost certainly exists as the influence behind many other significant events in history. While mankind's need for power is often blamed for many wars and innovations, the need to defend something we love or earn the love of another is undoubtedly a strong influence in these events, as well.

Few words have the power and life-changing influence as I Love You, even for the vast majority of us who have no influence on the world stage, politics or international disputes. For the rich and famous as well as the average person, I Love You carries a huge weight both physically and psychologically. Everyone wants to be loved, regardless of whether they admit it or not, and hearing the words I Love You is a huge comfort to every person in the world.

So, are the words I Love You the most important words in the world? Ask yourself, is I Love You really the most important phrase in the world for you personally, as well? If they are, then you might be able to create the type of romantic relationship that goes down in history. If not, then you might not be ready yet; but that's not to say that you won't be someday in the future.

Above all else, romance is patient. Never rush into anything, and if it doesn't feel like the time to say those special three words, then love may just have to wait a while!

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Ways you can improve the health of your Love environment.

love relationships is not perfectJust as we pollute our planet’s environment, we also pollute our relationships through our behavior and the methods we use to get what we want.

No relationship is perfect. Every relationship needs maintenance, as well as a clean up from time to time, so that it can stay healthy and on the right track. Not only that, but a relationship also requires a couple to find new ways of cleaning it up- since a relationship changes and grows in time- with new experiences and issues.love Pollution

As much as we all want to keep our relationship happy at all times, it is just not a realistic desire. While you might have a lot in common with your partner, you two are still two individual human beings with your own personal goals, passions and desires that you wish to achieve in your lives. You and your partner may not always see eye to eye on everything and this causes conflicts. One or both of you may also get lazy in time, not investing as much effort as you used to when the relationship was young and fresh. Does this mean that your partner (or you) no longer cares? Probably not- but it does mean that you and your partner have settled in too deeply in the comfort zone of your relationship and need to get up and give your relationship a good work out, so that it can get back in shape.

The following are common ways we pollute our relationships with negativity, as well as suggestions on how you can cleans things up and improve your relationship’s health.

Polluter #1: Laziness

Laziness is never your friend. It holds you back and keeps you from accomplishing goals that will make you feel happy and fulfilled. Just as laziness hurts you in your academic and career field, it hurts you in your relationships as well. It is only natural that both you and your partner will become comfortable as your relationship matures. The more time you spend together, the less concerned you become with staying on your toes and impressing one another, because you trust that you both love each other. There is nothing wrong with being comfortable in a relationship. In fact, you should feel safe and comfortable with your partner. However, there is such thing as getting too comfortable in a relationship. If you hang out in the comfort zone most of the time, that means you are no longer trying to find ways to excite each other and bring new joys into the relationship. At one point, you two will drift apart and will become bored- leading one or both of you to perhaps look outside the relationship for excitement, and/or break up.

What you can do: If your relationship is already suffering from the pollution of laziness, then it is time for both you and your partner to get up and get active! Do things to let your partner know that you are still crazy about him/her, as well as let him/her know things you would like for them to do for you, or with you. Find new places to visit together, new hobbies to get active in- whatever you both feel you will enjoy in each other’s company. It does not have to be anything big or extravagant, as long as you both work together in keeping the relationship active.

Polluter #2: Arguments

It is not really the arguing that is the polluter here, but more the way you argue that is. Arguing is normal and is important, because it plays a big role in bringing you and your partner closer together. Arguing is reasoning people give one another when they are for or against something. Through arguing, you and your lover learn the differences that exist between you and can use this information to understand each other better and therefore respect each other more, as well as behave more considerately towards one another. Arguments can help a relationship become even stronger and healthier…when you do it in a positive manner. Unfortunately, we often handle arguments in a negative manner, because to most of us arguments equal negative and this point of view causes us to behave negatively in an argument. Before you know it, what is supposed to be a constructive and learning experience, ends up being a fight of him vs. her with the goal to win and be right, rather than working together in finding a compromise.

What you can do: First of all, it is important that you keep reminding yourself that arguments are not a bad thing. Keep reminding yourself this until you truly understand it, so that the next time you get involved in an argument with your partner, you will not have your defenses up ready to enter a fight. Instead enter an argument with an open mind and heart, ready to problem solve- rather than enter a fighting contest. Do not be afraid or shy to talk to your partner about arguing. Remember, open and honest communication is key and if you and your lover talk about this when you two are happy and not arguing, you will be able to set your goals about this open and clear mindedly. It is essential that you both remember that when arguments do come to surface, the point is to attack the problem and not the person. Getting angry and feeling hurt during arguments is okay, as long as you express your anger and hurt productively and not in a way to just hurt your part back. Polluter #3: Denial

Denial is a huge relationship polluter. Many of us want to desperately believe that everything is fine or will work itself out in our relationship, causing us to blind ourselves from many truths. Every relationship will have problems and obstacles that are both painful and anger inducing, so while you can denial problems all you want- you are actually only making things worse for your relationship. Ignoring problems does not make them go away, but in fact makes them grow and grow until your relationship is hanging by its last thread. There are times when two people will grow apart and break up because of that, but often times; a relationship does not have to fall apart due to problems. Most relationship troubles can be worked out, but that requires the acceptance of these troubles from both partners involved.

What you can do: Be realistic and accept the fact that you and your partner can love each others and have problems at the same time. Understanding that having conflicts between you and your partner does mean you do not love each other anymore will help you avoid entering the denial zone. When a problem comes along, talk to your partner about it and do not avoid conversation when your partner approaches you about something. Brushing issues off will actually tear you two apart, because issues cannot work themselves out. If you really want to be with your partner, then you need to be a team member in your relationship at all times- the good and the bad. If do not want to lose your relationship and you want to make it last, then do not pretend everything is perfect. Love your relationship unconditionally by accepting it’s imperfections and teaming up with your lover in making improvements where they are needed (whether it is in the communication, trust, passion or commitment department) so your relationship can strengthen from both it’s positive and negative sides, rather than weaken due to denial on your or your partner’s part.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Sad love quotes and friendship

tell that you love herSad Love Words are the best way to help you feel better when you are in a situation of an end of friendship. We all lost a friend in some point of our life. Some of them might be close to us some might very important to us but the sad true is that it over.

So what you can do about it? Of course you can drown in sorrow and disturbed your daily life, but this is not the right solution for you. A better solution is to move on with your life, I know it might be hard for you at first, but there is something that might help you to get over it – sad love quotes and friendship quotes.

The written words hold secrets inside them. This is the secret of changing your mood to a positive one. It is like music, when you feel down and can really lift you up. And if it doesn't works than you need to go further and even dance! Yes I never saw a dancing person that is sad. The same thing is with quotes. When you are reading sad quotes you might think that you will be sadder after it. But the true is really surprising – it help you to get over the end of the Friendship Quotes.

Those sad love quotes will help you to remember the good time with your friend; figure out what went wrong so you will be able to fix it in this relationship or the next one. And above all it will give you the strength to move on with your life to new adventures.

"Real loss only occurs when you lose something you love more than yourself"

As the quote above state, yes it can happen again some day, and you will find again a special person to care about but only if you will love yourself first. And in order to do it you have to move on and hope for better days.