Counting Your Blessings - Show Him You Love Him for Real

Does he see that you absolutely love him? Does he see that you care for him so much? Does he reciprocate by showing how much he loves you, too? Proof of your love for each other does not have to come from words. You can show it through little things here and there. Below is a list of things you can do to demonstrate your love for him as well as signs to see if he truly cares.


The Little Things Mean Big

Although it is always a wonderful birthday gift to receive a classy perfume or a stunning dress, such do not automatically mean your boyfriend adores you. What truly matters are the nice things you get when there is no occasion at all. Some nice wine for the both of you to enjoy, rather than cans of beer for him alone, spells romance. In the same way, bringing home a six-pack is a little way of showing that you care for your guy.

Money Cannot Buy Love

How high the figure on the price tag attached to a present does not necessarily relate to how much one loves another. Not everyone can buy pricey presents. Your guy will be grateful enough if you give him gifts that are well-thought of and reflect your love more than its dollar price. Everyone knows that a poor fellow who would buy a bouquet of roses for his girl than eat must really be in love.

Words and Actions Go Hand-in-Hand

The phrase "I love you" becomes so easy to say after some time. Does it really mean much? Back your words with a little bit of loving action, like whipping up his favorite pasta (or whatever dish he enjoys). When he is surprised by the act, give him a soft kiss and whisper, "I love you this much" in his ear.

A Plan When His Actions Do not Show His Love

It is really amazing to love and be loved. However, it has cannot be that amazing for you or the relationship if you are the only one loving. Your guy may, in fact, be taking all the benefits even after you give him more than your all. That said, his falling in love with you simply is not a given even if you go to great lengths to show him your affection. Most of the time, it is not. It may be time to stop giving if you just do not get anything back. He may end up realizing his mistakes or you could call it quits. Whatever may happen, it is definitely better than just giving all the time and receiving zero back.

There are many things you can do to show your love in place of just saying it. It is a different story however if you have no one to show your love to. How do you draw a man towards you and make him adore you? We can let you know, too.